To celebrate International Fetish Day, we’re not focusing on one specific fetish but on something that can make them all more enjoyable—the best lubes.
There’s a lot of unnecessary stigma around lubricants. Some people think they don’t need lube if they’re good at sex, but that’s not the case. Lube enhances sexual experience, making it about more than just arousal.
Sex without lube is like washing your hair without conditioner. It works, but you miss out on some serious goodness. Fortunately, the stigma around lubricants seems to be dying out. A study by Lovehoney found that 37% of people in the UK, US, and Australia have tried lube, with higher usage among 25-34-year-olds.
Lube enhances sensation with warming, cooling, and tingling effects, reduces the risk of STDs and tearing, increases comfort, and helps you go longer. It also addresses dryness, which can result from stress, medications, over washing, dehydration, lack of stimulation, and menopause.
Here are some of the best lubes to try in 2020:
Water-Based Lubes
A good starting point for beginners. They’re simple, flavorless, and scent-free.
– Bondara Luxury Lubricant (£8.99)
Sensitive Lubes
For those with allergic reactions, hypoallergenic lubes are available.
– ID Moments (£10.99)
Moisturizing Lubes
These can double as personal moisturizers and are safe for internal use.
– Lelo Personal Moisturiser (£17.90)
Thick Lubes
Ideal for those experiencing tightness or painful sex.
– Smilemakers Generous Gel (£18.78)
Flavored Lubes
For a tasty experience, try flavored lubes.
– JO Gelato Hazelnut Espresso (£5.85)
Vegan Lubes
Ethically made, suitable for sensitive users.
– YES WB (£13) & Sliquid Organics (£18.33)
Warming Lubes
Enhance arousal with gradual warming effects.
– Intimate Earth Melt (Warming Glide) (£14.99)
Cooling Lubes
Great for temperature play and soothing painful sex.
– System